None of us will ever be 17 or 25 or 40 again. Physical attributes that make us hot or not come and go, but when you are in love with the whole of another person, just a knowing look or a light brush of the hand across your back could be the biggest turn ons of all.

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As women we find it so much easier to put ourselves down, downplay our attributes, or just downright disappear. Would we ever talk about someone else as poorly as we talk about ourselves? Tell yourself you are amazing. You may not believe it at first, but eventually you will.

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