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I knew this discussion had to be shared and the Friday Night BeerBlog (FNBB) and subsequent podcast episodes on Redesigning Midlife were born. Join us every other week as I publish the blog, but also produce the FNBB podcast version where we discuss and disagree a lot. All in fun. And usually over a beer.
As I worked through imposter syndrome and began to gain confidence in this blog, I asked my husband, Mike, to sit and listen to it each week. The discussion and the midlife male perspective on the topics was lively to say the least.
What I Learned From Dry January
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What Is Relationship “Popcorning” And Am I Guilty?
The Fifty-First Official Friday Night BeerBlog
The Seventy-Fourth Official Friday Night BeerBlog
What’s With The Friday Night BeerBlog (FNBB) Anyway?
The Seventy-Second Official Friday Night BeerBlog
Married 26 Years Last Month – The McShane Secrets To A Successful (ish) Marriage.
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You’re a Savage. Classy. Bougie. Ratchet.
The Eighty-Third Official Friday Night BeerBlog
The Eighth Official Friday Night BeerBlog
I Can See Clearly Now The Dirt Is Gone
The Twenty-Third Official Friday Night BeerBlog
The end game is to look in the mirror and accept the whole image that you receive back. No one is actually perfect and we are all imprinted with amazing uniqueness, which is what other people fall in love with, not our triceps.
To me being married for 26 years sounds like forever, but it is something I’m very proud of for both of us. These are the things we do to be successful(ish).
it’s nice when others acknowledge our accomplishment and say they are proud of us, but it means even more when we allow ourselves to be proud of ourselves in these BIG P moments. We are the ones that have sacrificed and know what we have been through in order to accomplish this thing.
the more you pay attention to your own needs, you are working to become a better spouse, mother, child, friend, and employee. And not only that, but the better care you take of yourself teaches others how to treat you as well.
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